After a recent unpleasant encounter at work, I've been thinking about what it means to be a lady in the workplace. Just because we want equal rights doesn't mean all hints of chivalry should die! It's quite irritating to have a grown man let a door slam in your face while holding an armful of books. And this has happened more than once in recent months.
With this in mind, I've come up with a few do's and don'ts for us women at work . . .
DON'T:
- Walk into work with a frown
DO:
- Be the cheerful person everyone loves to see in the morning
DON'T:
- Dress in a manner to attract flirtation
DO:
- Dress to attract compliments for your good taste
DON'T:
- Allow emotions to make your decisions
DO:
- Reflect on your feelings overnight before reacting
DON'T:
- Cry, complain, or make excuses during a meeting
DO:
- Accept responsibility, but stand up for yourself when necessary
DON'T:
- Tear down another co-worker to build yourself up
DO:
- Encourage success with your teammates (especially female) so they'll do the same for you
And finally . . .
DON'T:
- Expect someone to open the door for you
DO:
- Offer sincere thanks to those who do (I expect this will result in more door openings)
